Russia (bbabo.net), - To make your New Year wishes come true in the best possible way, you can follow a few rules.
Rule one: you can only wish good
"We are all part of the big world and must live according to its laws. These laws obey the principles of the universe. Every word and action resonates in the Universe. Good wishes bring joy and happiness, evil ones bring failures. The Universe is reasonable and we see confirmation of this in the laws of nature." , - says psychologist and astrologer Elena Shtol in a conversation with Rossiyskaya Gazeta.
Rule two: desire should be useful to other people
For example, a woman may want a child. And it is more correct to dream of a child who can please not only the woman herself, but also make other relatives happy, a child who will grow up to be a good person and benefit other people.
Or, for example, a man may dream of an increase in wealth, a higher salary. In this case, correctly formulate the desire so that the income should better provide for his family. For example, a wife may have more time for children as her husband's income rises. Or a higher salary can be directed to the development of children, their classes in various sections. "Desires that are built into the general flow and benefit other people come true faster and better," says Elena Stol.
Rule three: desire to better describe or visualize
New Year's rituals with making wishes appeared for a reason. They help our psyche to form a goal, to enclose it in a form, and to strive for this, says the psychologist. “When a person writes a wish on paper, then burns it, pours ashes into champagne and drinks such a cocktail to the chimes, he performs a ritual for the mind and body. First, he clearly defines the goal. Second, he literally takes his own desire. This is one of the methods in body-oriented psychotherapy and kinesiology - acceptance at the level of the body. The power of acceptance through the body adjusts our consciousness and subconsciousness in the right way, "explains Elena Stoll.
Desires are important to articulate, prescribe, visualize and to isolate goals from the general chaotic flow. "The human mind is sometimes compared to a jumping monkey. Thought rushes back and forth. And the fulfillment of desires requires energy, which is limited by time and strength. Therefore, you need to learn how to allocate desires," says the psychologist.
Visualization helps to do this. For example, you can "decorate" a Christmas tree with your wishes. Those who dream of a child can decorate the Christmas tree with booties, a pacifier, a baby doll. If a person dreams of a home, they can hang the key on the tree. A person who wants to go on a trip is a symbol of the country to which he wants to go, a small globe or an airplane figurine. For those who want to meet love, you can hang a heart on the Christmas tree. "This ritual can be performed with the whole family. Even if dad cannot take part in it due to being busy, he will see what his loved ones dream of. After all, he also works to make their wishes come true. what your family wants is to work easier. It is also important to coordinate desires so that they are shared by other people. A person is a social being, and people love when their desires are fulfilled in a pleasant company, "says Elena Shtol.
Rule four: you have to be willing to work hard to fulfill your desires
“In order to think of something that will be effectively fulfilled in the future, you need to be able to correctly assess your past. For example, a person dreams of singing. with someone who has a musical education. Therefore, you need to be able to evaluate the experience and build on it, expecting the right results. But experience moves in time, and if you accumulate it, desires will be fulfilled without fail, "the psychologist explains.
Rule five: desire should be aimed at developing the mind and soul
"Such desires are the most dear, the most valuable. We have come into the world precisely for this - for development, for gaining not just experience, but experience that develops us. It is very useful not only on New Year's Eve, but always during the making of wishes to repeat the installation: “Let only that which is useful for my life and my destiny be fulfilled.” In essence, this is how we adapt from the point of view of psychology for everyday perception the thesis “Everything is God's will” or “Let my desires be secondary to your desires, Lord”, - says Elena Stoll.
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