Psychologists told how falling in love differs from love and why it is not necessary to artificially prolong the feeling of falling in love, RIA Novosti reports.
“Love is considered to be a feeling, and falling in love is the initial stage of this process, which can develop into love, or can end at this stage,” explained neuropsychologist Yulia Punina.
According to her, falling in love is a "temporary euphoric cocktail" of different emotions, physiological and psychological reactions. During this period, a person has an unstable consciousness and physiology, he is on an emotional and psychophysiological swing. It will not work to be in a state of love for a long time, because nature does not allow us to be in such an unbalanced state for a long time.
In turn, psychologist Olga Batueva noted that during the period of falling in love, it is typical for a person to idealize a lover.
Experts agree that it is much better for falling in love to develop into a more mature feeling, when you accept and love a person, and not an ideal image that does not correspond to reality.
When building a long-term and mature relationship, common interests, values, goals, as well as the ability to talk and hear each other are important.
“It is impossible to guess what the other person wants, you need to talk about it, and talk with a living person, and not with the fantasy that is in your head. It is important to accept a person, let's say, in a 3D model with all the advantages and disadvantages, and not as a flat character, ”added Batueva.
Earlier, the Russians were told how cooking affects relationships in a couple.
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