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The mother of a schoolgirl whose teacher talked about single-parent families called her dismissal a “relief”

The mother of a Voronezh fourth-grader, at the lesson with whom the teacher talked about the divorce of her parents, Irina, in a conversation with, said that the children did not want to learn from this teacher. The woman noted that it was her ex-husband who posted the audio recording from the lesson on the Internet, but they did not expect that the situation would “swell up to such a scale.”

“There were prerequisites, but somehow they put up, there was no such tough guy. From the very first class, she taught, she is young, this is her first set - everything was written off for this from the beginning: first, second, third class. But the fourth grade is already straight trash. My daughter does not want to go to school, she says that she has a headache all the time, she sleeps during the lessons. It seems like she’ll get bored over the summer, it’s like two weeks - that’s all: “Again, this Daria Nikolaevna, I won’t go, she finds fault with me.” She is really biased towards the child. I had many face-to-face conversations with her. I told her that this was wrong, well, no matter how young she is, I explain to her that this is a teacher's authority. If she sees that it doesn’t work, that the children don’t obey, then let her try a different technique, develop herself. It is clear that 35 people, you can’t adapt to everyone, but dividing them, smacking them is wrong, they are only 10 years old, and what will they be like at 15 years old? Whatever you lay down, they will start projecting,” she said.

According to Irina, the teacher “pissed off” her by bringing up the subject of divorce. She stressed that she did not want the teacher to be fired, but the news of this was a “relief” for her.

“When my daughter and I talked yesterday, she accidentally told me about the situation. She says that the teacher raised such a topic, the girls burst into tears and they left the class four of them. My husband and I are also divorced, but my child is probably less traumatized than other girls. There is a girl whose parents have just divorced, and there is no relationship with her mother, and the child projected this very strongly onto himself and burst into tears. She touched on such a topic, pissed me off, of course. My daughter told me, and then a friend sent the material to her, it turns out she wrote it down. I told dad to throw it off, let him go to school with her tomorrow, talk. Naturally, no one planned that it would swell to such a scale. Honestly, I'm relieved that she quit. I’m not happy, I didn’t want to do anything bad to a person, but I’ll tear for my child. I don't want my child to get hurt," she added.

The woman noted that she was going to solve the problem at the level of the director, but her ex-husband decided to post the audio recording on the Internet.

“It occurred to my husband to throw it on the Internet, we did not think about the consequences. I was going to go to the director of the school, I wanted to solve it all at this level, because when you hire staff, you need to look after them, train them, control them, especially young, inexperienced staff. And if there are periodic complaints, double control is needed. No, I personally did not complain, but I know that many mothers reached the director, ”she explained.

Earlier, the Telegram channel “Caution, news” posted an audio recording in which a primary school teacher at school No. 103 in Voronezh talked about single-parent families. According to the teacher, children from incomplete families run between their parents and are deprived of attention.

Later it became known that the teacher decided to quit.

The mother of a schoolgirl whose teacher talked about single-parent families called her dismissal a “relief”